The First Steps To Shed The Limiting Beliefs That Standing In Your Way Of Being A Confident Person

Why limiting beliefs stand between you and your dreams. how these limiting beliefs

stand in your way to becoming confident.

what you can do to eliminate these limiting beliefs and become confident.

The Limiting Beliefs That Standing In Your Way Of Being A Confident person,creator,entrepreneur

Limiting beliefs are the beliefs that you adopt, soak in, accept without knowing into your subconscious mind.

they become a habitual thought pattern and become part of how you operate & function.

They’re not helpful beliefs that are stopping you from reaching your goals and dreams

I had so many limiting beliefs and the one that stops me the most

is the belief I am not enough, I am not enough to have a business, not enough to….etc.

Up until recently, I believed that my content is bad, they are not good, no one will want to consume them, they are not good enough as X someone on the internet.

That made this process so hard and draining. I push content try and all my might to not do it until the last minute criticizing myself while and after creating it.

it wasn’t fun or enjoyable by any means.

I doubt myself and if I can create something worthy.

if I can create something that shows me & personality while helping the person I want to help

I was believing that I am not good enough deep down so, no matter what I do I can’t make it right.

I wasn’t confident at all in my content or myself for that matter(this ‘s a different story I’ll share with you later)

To feel confident about my content I need to change this belief and install a new belief which is

” I am enough, I get better at creating content every time I do it,

I am capable of creating content that can help one person, I choose to make content creation fun & easy,…etc”

>>>different beliefs lead to different feelings thus action and results

Content creation becomes easier, fun and exciting and this mindset can be applied to different parts of your business too

to become confident in WARNING it’s a process = will take some time until your mind beliefs it. be patient (easier said than done I know but you can be if you choose to so, choose to be )

Why Do You Need Confidence As A Creator?)

Good question 🙂

Because it’s so important to sell, to show up, to create content, to connect, to attract clients…etc

Everything in your creator business that moves the needle requires you to be confident.

Without it you won’t be able to show up as much, you’ll hide who you are, you’ll feel less than others…

All the Important work needs confidence without it everything will be hard, unpleasant, disappointing.

Confidence is always combined with courage

Because your limiting beliefs will stop you while you’re still working on making the new beliefs permanent in your mind which will take time for that to happen

That’s when courage comes into play.

courage will help you take the action when your limiting beliefs come back and start working at the time of taking the new scary action that doesn’t work with it

Until you make the new belief stronger & eliminate the limiting belief courage will aid you

Not to say that you need to be feeling great all the time but to be able to have supporting confidence/thoughts that help you navigate this journey no matter what happens and eventually get to where you want 

Why Limiting Beliefs Standing In Your Way Of Being Confident

Confidence is based on beliefs and thoughts that you have that produce this feeling

if your beliefs don’t make you feel confident you won’t do what is necessary to win even if you push yourself so hard.

Because you can’t move beyond your beliefs to achieve something new

>>> You need to think & believe different things than what you’re believing right now. 

Confidence is a feeling & state of being that is created by your own thoughts and beliefs if your thoughts & beliefs don’t make you feel confident you won’t feel them

limiting/blocking beliefs are ones that lead you to the opposite of your goal and what you want.

It’s not a failure if you really try and fail

However,

It’s a failure if you keep repeating the same over & over again without changing the fundamental thing that leads to change & confidence

>>> which will ultimately lead to achieving your goal

These limiting beliefs standing in your way

They will block your way to your goal and for that reason, you need to address them, get aware of them, and actively install new beliefs

Thought/belief>Feeling>Action>Result This is the formula to achieve any results you want

Here Are 4 Common Limiting Beliefs That Creators And High Achievers Have That Tremendously Decrease Their Confidence:

These are Limiting Beliefs That Standing In Your Way Of Being A Confident Boss Babe

1-I don’t know enough, I’m not expert enough, who am in to do this…I am not enough

This one is a biggy because it’s so deep into our being that we don’t even notice that we have it

( it definitely been for me that’s why I want to help you to become aware of it and notice it on what you think & do)

It showed up to me when I created content, connected and said who I am & what I do.

I started to think “I don’t like this content it’s not good,who am I to do this”

This is a deep belief that shows up when doing anything that is new,

that is outside of my comfort zone, that is outside of what’s familiar to me

Even when I try to upgrade my level to something I already know

This belief attacks your core values, attacks the sense of yourself that’s why it’ll become hindrance to your every step

This is an encouragement to look into your life, biz & see if you have it or not (apply this to the following limiting beliefs too)

and if you do then you can work on changing it. It will take time but will change.

At the moment, I’ve been working on it for a while & noticing a great change in how I react, show up & interact with others.

2-my x isn’t as good as x someone… (X=my content, my offer,…)

If you notice that you think this way or similar (no one wants this content, it’s garbage, I want to do/amazing as X person that I admire…etc)

You need to stop comparing yourself because that’s what’s happening

also, it’s related to the previous belief

It makes you get into your head, overthink what to create, overcomplicate the process, getting into

“I don’t know syndrome” because you’re trying to be someone else that is not you

The simple solution for this is stop following, listening, watching and reading from people you’re comparing yourself to

And follow different people & preferably those that aren’t in your niche or industry.

Do it for at least 2 weeks and you’ll be amazed how different you think

While doing that work on adding empowering beliefs

As My content are good, I create amazing content,

My content is enough as they are to get me the result that I want …etc.

3- You think “It’s not going to be easy, it’s not easy to get there“

You think It’s difficult to succeed in your business. you have the thought” it’s hard, complicated” or similar.

These thoughts will lead you to procrastinate even if you don’t quit.

Lead you to sabotage yourself because it’s painful to work hard and not see results right away

Or as fast as you want them to be (in my case I wanted like right now)

Because you want success to prove something, to prove you matter, to prove you’re right, to prove you’re not a failure or bluffing.

4- You think there’s The right thing, way, strategy, niche..etc

“I need to make sure everything is right, I don’t want to make mistakes, I want to do the right thing”

1-Comes from fear of failure and wanting to avoid it at all costs which is why you want the right thing from the get-go without realizing that

If you’ve never built biz before you’ll need to learn a lot of things and learning doesn’t come without making mistakes

Even if you know that business requires risks & ” failure” you don’t still realize it that’s what your thinking indicates

2-Fear of rejection can be another reason for it because you don’t want someone to say NO to you.

You try to do it right from the get-go so, you avoid rejection if you know & do the right thing no one will reject you, right?

Wrong!!!

Some will reject you for one reason or another.

They don’t resonate with you, they don’t like the way you do things that you stand for ..etc

Some people will want what you have to offer & others won’t, that’s how life is.

If you accept that truly it’ll help you experiment & show up as you are and become magnetic

What Are The Steps To Eliminate These Limiting Beliefs?

1- Becoming Aware that you have them (like you’re doing right now)

2-Questioning & Doubting the belief

3-When, Where it came from(optional step) investigate

4-Let go of the limiting beliefs

By declaring /saying that you’re letting them go, that you’re eradicating them, eliminating them

5-Make the limiting belief painful & the new belief pleasurable

Example:

limiting belief: I need X to succeed ” I need to post daily, I need another strategy to succeed,I need an email list to succeed…etc’

Make it painful: it’s hard to do that, it’s difficult

The new belief: I have what I need to succeed. I can succeed with what I know & have

Make it pleasurable: It’s thrilling to only do this and scuees, I can’t wait to succeed doing this strategy..etc

5-Installing a Different Belief that you want to believe that you’re not believing

An important thing to note here is to choose beliefs that make you feel confident.

When you choose a thought, think about what this thought/belief makes me feel.

Or you can switch the question to What can I think & believe to feel confident about…..?

6-Continuously Repeating the new belief for at least 63 days

Divide them into mini-challenges to help you keep going.

start with 21 days then another 21 days then 21 days until you finish it it’ll take 4 cycles of 21 days

Or 4 cycles of 14 days+7 days to hit 63 days.

If you need more help read here on how to change your beliefs

you’re enough to be & do what you want

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