7 Mindset Shifts For Success Pt1 -

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Mindset shifts for success

When you start your journey to build your dream life the way you want you’ll encounter challenges, obstacles fears..etc I definitely have and still do I only started really taking actions previously I was just preparing I knew that now because the actions I took categories under preparing

Mindset Shifts For Success To Adopt

1- Take Responsibility For Your Life

This one changed me a lot. after knowing this and realizing it and adopting in my life Whenever something goes wrong or not get done or the fact that I am where I am today is my responsibility it’s hard at the first time you hear it to accept it but when you come to realize it. it gives you so much power and it did that to me. it is a vicious mentality to be in. when I was always in the balming mindset it took my energy away, let me feel helpless and weak and unable to do a thing to change my life because I saw myself as victim that can’t and don’t have the power. now I don’t blame outside I take responsibility and try to reflect on my action why I did this why I didn’t what I should do next time and so on.

2-Believe In Yourself And What Are You Doing

Believing is hard at first especially if you used to sabotage yourself every time you don’t get things completed or not achieved goals you wanted to achieve but you have to believe in yourself and what you do or going to because if you don’t no one will do. I achieved this by being around people who have that mindset through consuming contents from them on youtube e, blogs, social media. another way that also helps in you believing in you is celebrating and acknowledging your small wins this one I am starting to do it from time to time but I saw a difference in just acknowledging something small like waking up 6:30 on the weekdays or journaling in the morning before my workout for a week. don’t discourage yourself from celebrating and acknowledging the small wins because they’re going to do wonders to your brain.the last way I use affirmation just simply say this or any that you” I believe in myself” it is simple and powerful you’ll believe in you if you do it repeat this daily.

3-Know You Can Even If You Don’t Have The Skills And What Required Right Know Because You Always Can Learn

I feel you if you see yourself untalented, you never had something specific you can point at and say I am good at that or that or I did this or that that’s true for me too. I didn’t see myself as a person with special talent that I can point at and say here it is that was so devastating and hurtful when I see everyone that has something that they are good at. I used the distraction to avoid the pain but as you know it won’t hold for long. now when I think about it maybe I didn’t see it because I was holding effort especially after trying a few things and found myself not good at them from the start and how people around me told me a talented person should do it right from the start that leads me to no trying and feeling sorry for myself .

when I changed my mindset that I don’t need talent or natural skills because I have the one skill that I need to do whatever I want and be whoever I want which is learning. I was freed and able to take action.

4- Always Be Learning And Growing

As I said a above learning is a superpower and it is mine and yours if you believed in your ability to learn which is evident throughout your life. Remember when you were born you weren’t able to speak, walk or take care of yourself but eventually you did all that, how? by learning. you learned to do those things you weren’t like baby cow’s or deer..etc came knowing that. Also, if you take a moment to think, you find yourself learned a lot so far even if these seem insignificant and mundane. learning and growing is the joy of life because they mean you are moving, progressing not sitting still stagnating

5- There Are No Failures Only Lessons

Seeing failure as a learning experience that leads me and you to the right path.

First, accept it that will make you less fearful and anxious about failure. Second always ask yourself questions and understand what happened to learn from the situation question like”what can I learn from here? what I did that leads to this thinking and action wise, how I get better or how I let go, many questions you can ask yourself to reflect on the so-called failures and learn from them then moves on

6-Adopt Positivity

This is so great.there’re always things to be grateful about in your life, the little moments when you felt pure joy, the miracle that you are alive, the breath you are taking right now and so much more. being positive is seeing what is going right than just only focusing on what’s going wrong, seeing the good in people, seeing the amazing achievements and events that are happening in the world rather than the news. focusing on the good rather on the bad.don’t sweat it if you get negative sometimes but not all the times.

Living and being around negative people is so draining. It takes so much energy from you.it shifts your attention and let you focus on stuff and things that don’t serve you in creating your dream life or achieving a specific goal or for your health in general.

7-Simplify Everything

When things get overwhelming and confusing or You start to doubt yourself or you are feeling stressed.

if you are in any of these situations just stop what you’re doing and saying and thinking and just take a deep breath after that asks yourself why you are stressed, overwhelmed, doubting if you can’t do that and your brain starts to jump at you and make you feel more of that. Don’t listen to your mind let this mindset shift be your solution I had and I am still using it in these situations and in general because making things complicated will just increase your stress and make you anxious and won’t help you . just take it easy and think what is the simple thing you can do instead of getting overwhelmed by the big goal or the dream.