7 Mindset Shifts For Success Pt 2 -

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Mindset Shifts For Success

Mindset is very important in this game of life if we have the intention to succeed and take our lives to the next level whatever however this level looks. How you see things matter, how you think about things, situations..etc will determine your outcomes I learned this and more from all the awesome people that share their wisdom and teaching with the world. I believe so much in the idea that everything starts inside, start with the faith of the unseen then the outside world will follow. My mindset changed a lot in a span of three years with what I learned and stuck with me and what I am applying into my life right now. I wanted to share more mindset shifts that helped me and helping me through my journey and I know it will help you if you apply what resonates with you most

Mindset Shifts For Success To Adopt

8-Be Adaptable

Being fixed in one way. Dwelling when things don’t goes as you planned if things don’t work or not as you expected that will drain you. This mindset will help you move and learn what you need from what happened then move and change according to what happened

I used to sit on when my plans don’t go as I wanted and get frustrated and feel bad and waste time. something I used to do is get mad when my plans for the day don’t go as I wanted them to be I just feel mad at the people who caused that my family, now I just adjust times and try to do my work as early as possible and know the best times to not be interrupted plainly I started to take responsibility for my time and I adjust if something happens even if my plans were perfect

9-Small Steps Better Than One Big Leap Then Nothing Then Another One Far From Each Other

We all heard many motivational speakers talking about taking a huge risk and big leap but I know that isn’t easy for someone like me who has been living in fear all her life and never really takes risks and take a long time to decide on something even the smallest thing. I found that taking baby steps works wonders for me especially at the first of the journey of any goal,project..etc. as I said I was living in fear and doubt from all things and taking big risks is great when you listen to the words but when I try to do my mind start to react and steer me by distracting me to eliminate the pain and fear also, I realize that became a habit that ingrained in me to change it I need move steady and small at first. I found that taking small steps will help a lot in building your confidence in yourself with the wins you win every time you take one and try

10-Know You Won’t Be Great At First And Probably You’ll Suck

When you start something new you are going to tremble, fall, make mistakes and do it poorly or worse but remember when you took your first steps in life didn’t you fall as soon as you did but you did it again and again and now you walk flawlessly.don’t expect that you’ll get it the first time or the second or even the 100th you won’t know at which you’ll get it but it will work if you keep working on it whatever it is. I say this because for me that let me not give up when a thing doesn’t work after I planned and did .that helped me change how I think and keep trying, learning and doing until I get it

11-Know Your Destination Don’t Worry If The Road Change Or You Don’t Know How To Get There Yet

because you will if you keep at it and believe and do what you know and can right now. Take one step at the time that’s what I am doing right now. I know where I want to be and some of the things I want out of life(i don’t know everything yet). when it comes to planning and how I just get two or more steps that lead to the goal, dream and I don’t know what else to do. when something like that happens I work on what I know because otherwise I will dwell and think what to do and waste time because I wouldn’t know by thinking only and I find that things get clearer as I go and start taking action. I know where I am and the destination I want to go but I can’t see the whole road just a few steps ahead I believe that it will revel in its time as I go on and get moving which is true I am experiencing it right now.

12-Be Compassionate With Yourself

if you do something wrong or you can’t figure something out don’t jump into criticizing and negative talk just know that you did your best at that given time supposedly you truly did your best at that time. keep in mind to learn from it and make everything help you grow. always learn and grow. I started to implement this recently in my life.it was just huge how that made me feel about myself. I was able to have semi-peace in mind but don’t get it wrong because at first I did being compassionate it is not about not working hard or give myself a free pass but not get stuck in the negative self-talk,guilt, harsh criticism

how I do it? first I catch myself criticizing, blaming or any negative talk, the second I stop myself and acknowledge that I did it to my best at that time third i ask myself what can i do better now or change or make…

13- Listen To The Voice Inside

you know what you want even if you feel you don’t or can’t say right now that’s because you are looking so much outside and you have been conditioning yourself to that by saying”I don’t know or any equivalent “ to many things you’ve been asked and not try to dig deeper. I find it not that easy let me tell you it needs practice and awareness but doesn’t fear I have few tips that should help a little but you need to practice. Tips on how to do it

1-answer some online questionnaires

2-self discovery prompts

3-meditate to get a hold on your thoughts

4- use the model method. I Learned from a podcast called the life school podcast on episode one

In short here how it works you-you see an action you are doing then goes behind the thought behind it then how this or these thoughts make you feel

it all evolved around the idea that all your actions come from thoughts and those thoughts make you feel certain things and based on how you feel you act

14- Work Hard And Smart

I learned that working hard alone doesn’t work especially if you keep doing the same thing but you’re not getting anywhere you need to reflect and ask yourself and change ways, methods and whatever you need to then can resume working hard and putting in the effort. don’t get me wrong I am with working hard and hustling but you need to use your brain not just doing and doing and don’t take the time to assess, make a change(s), improve..etc