How To Set And Build New Habits
How To Set And Build New Habits
Habits are the basis of our lives because we are habitual creatures and to change
and reach your goals you need to get down into what you do on a daily basis.
but, It’s hard to build new habits and break old ones and I bit you know that too
I know how difficult it can be that’s why I wrote this article
to help you and myself build the habits we want to better our lives and reach our goals
this article is the 7th of the start of start the year Strong series
you’ll find links to all the articles in this series at the end of the article
What you will learn:
- science of habits
- Important concepts that will help you understand the tools
- Tools based on science to help you build habits and the neuroscience for each one
- Programs to follow that combine every tool
This post is based on this episode of the Huberman Lab podcast

Science of habits
Habit building is related to learning and neuroplasticity
Neuroplasticity is the process in which your nervous system
changes in response to experience
The change happens to the communication between neurons through
the changes to the electrical and chemical signals
This means forming new neurocircuits and pathways in which a habit can occur
Important concepts In neuroscience and psychology
That would be useful for understanding the tools and program
They are important to understand
because they play a role in building habits, and breaking them
( will have a separate post),
and for you to understand the tools
1-types of habits based on psychology
-Goal-based habits
Habits that are based on the outcome you want to achieve like doing push-ups
-identity-based habits
Habits that are based on who you want to be or the identity you have like being an athlete, creative
which are more powerful
leaning these to help you in choosing the habits you want to build
2-limibic friction
How much energy and effort do you need to overcome to do the behavior
How much activation energy it will take for you to execute a new habit or break a habit
It’s affected by the state of your body and mind
it’s a measure to assess whether forming certain habits will be
easy or challenging for you to
or if you can build the habit or not at all
3-Linchpin habits
Are things that you enjoy doing that are easy to execute and they make doing others’ habits easier
to execute when they’re done in relation to each other
helps us Execute hard habits
4-habit strength
There are 2 ways to measure habit strength
1-how context-dependent a habit is
The ability to perform the habit at any time and in any environment
Stong habits are context-independent meaning you can do them anywhere at any time
eg. teeth brushing if you can do them at your home and hotel when you travel
then they are context-independent
2-limibic friction
Limibic friction is how much top-down (from your fore-brain to your limbic system that generates autonomic responses)
conscious override of your state is required to engage in that particular behavior
When you are in the process of building and consolidating habits
it will take more limbic friction to execute those habits
The goal of any habit is to become automatic
meaning it requires less energy to get done
Less mental and physical effort and less limbic friction to execute them
How long does it take to build habits
It varies from person to person and from habit to another
You may build the habit of waking up early in 3 months or more but you easily build the habit of journaling in 2 weeks or less
Identify which habits are easy for you to perform,
and which ones are hard for you to perform
And which ones do you want to break
doing this will help you when you use the tools below
next is the habit building tools

Tools to build habits(how to set habits)
Tool 1 Procedural memory visualization
Come from psychology exactly from a review article (psychology of Habit)
by Wendy Wood and Dennis Ruegner in the Annual Review of Psychology
What is a procedural monomer?
It’s where you hold the sequence of events in order for a particular outcome to happen like a recipe or protocol
Neuroscience
parts of the brain involved are the Hipicmapus and neocortex and others
receptors involved NMDA AND methyl-D- aspartate receptors
different receptors on the surface of the neurons will start activating
with a strong stimulus of doing the visualization
then when you actually engage in this new behavior and as you do it repeatedly
particular neurons co-activate
i.e fire together which strengthens the connection between them
How do you do it?
By visualizing the sequence of steps to perform the habit from start to finish
shift the likelihood of being able to perform this habit
from unlikely or moderately likely to very likely over time
Use it with things you want to be reflexive,
do it once or twice a week
Benefits, why it helps in habit building
when you do the visualization the nervous system
sets in motion the same neurons that are going to be required for the execution of that habit
so when you actually perform that habit
things fall easily into place,it lowers the threshold for the habit to perform
Which will increase the likelihood of doing the habit
Tool 2 task bracketing
Important for the establishment of behaviors associated with a habit,
we have particular circuits in our brain that are devoted to framing
the events just before we initiate the habit and just after we terminate the habit
When that part of the brain and neuro circuits is engaged your body is primed to execute the habit
Neuroscience, how it works
involves neurocircuit within the nasal ganglia
Which is dorso(up)lateral(to the side) striatum (subdivision to the basal ganglia)
when it is working it changes the state of your body and mind
and makes it easier to execute the habit
Benefits of using this tool
Important because it will determine
whether or not will be context dependent or not, and strong or not
the state of your body and mind when using this tool
is going to allow you to get into a habit, form that habit, and consolidate that habit
because Our nervous system tends to generate particular behavior based on the state is in
and this tool lead you toa sate where you can perform habits easily
How to use it
Through visualizing the events before and after the habit execution
And though using the next tool

Tool 3 phase-based habits plan (program in itself )
Dividing the day into 3 phases starting from when you wake up
it can apply to both nocturnal and diurnal people
based on neuroscience and psychology literature on learning and the concept of task bracketing
Each phase will underpin biological and chemical and neurocircuits assoiated with it
I will describe the diurnal which starts from bedtime at 10 pm plus or minus
and waking up at 7 am plus or minus
Benefits, why you should do it
The reason for placing particular behaviors at different phases of the day is to
utilize the neurochemical states of each phase
which will make habits associated with that phase
(before, during, and after the execution of the habits)
in doing so,
you shift the whole nervous system into being able
to predict when certain things going to happen
ie. when you are going to lean in against limbic friction
in order to perform particular types of habits
which utilizes task bracketing and
helps with making the habit context independent
How it works
1-0-8hours from waking up
Neuromodulators epinephrine and norepinephrine, dopamine will be elevated in this phase
For several reasons
1- healthy cortisol is higher in our bloodstream
2-our body temperature is increasing
things that support this alert and focused state
1-viewing sunlight or bright artificial light within 30 minutes of waking
2-physical exercise of some kind preferably early but it’s okay if not
3-cold exposure
4-caffeine ingestion
5-fasting not ingesting will increase these neurotransmitters
Or eat food that is high in tyrosine( look them up
Or supplements with alpha GPC or phenylethylamine, l-tyrosine(
disclaimer: consult your physician before taking any supplements or doing any sort of diet change )
they place your body and mind in a state
where you can easily engage with high limbic friction activities
because your whole system is primed for action and focus
due to the neurochemicals that rise in this phase
Practical how to use it
List the habits you want to do and do the ones that have
the highest degree of limbic friction,
hardest to engage in, require the most activation energy,
and want them and put them in this phase
2-9-14 hours after waking up
Neurochmicals from phase one start to come down, cortisol decreases and
serotonin starts to rise which will put you into a more relaxed state
than before but not yet too relaxed like phase 3
Things that support the consolidation and generation of certain types of habits
1-reducing the amount of light you are viewing artificial one
Because you will be heading to phase 3 soon which will be important
for the consolidation of habits
2-NSDR(NON-SLEEP-DEEP-REST), self-hypnosis script, meditation to get into a relaxed state
3- hot bath, shower, and sauna support the high serotonin state
4-supplementation: ashwagandha very potent cortisol-inhibiting tool
not to be taken more than 2 weeks (to know why look it up)
disclaimer: consult with your doctor before taking any supplements or doing any protocol
an important point to have in mind is
that in this state you are alert and engaged in social activities and other works
but you’re not on the same level as phase 2
I think of it as an in-between state of the first and third phase
Practical things to use it
Choose habits that are a bit challenging but don’t require
a ton of energy to override the limbic friction.
Less resistant things that have neruosubstare
It could be habits that you already practicing like journaling, or learning a language…
Because our ability to override limbic friction will be less than that of phase one as explained above
3-16-24 hours from waking up
You are heading to sleep and sleeping by the end of it
Things to support being in this state of neuroplasticity that leads to Habits consolidating
1-very low to no light (very dim or dark environment)
2-lowering temperature it has to lower by 1-2 degrees to get into sleep and stay
3- adjusting your eating schedule ie. eat well enough before sleep
whether that is 2 hours or more
4-supplements:
Magnesium theronate,bisglycinate,theonine, apigenin
disclaimer: consult with your doctor before taking any supplements or doing any protocol
5-not ingesting any caffeine starting in phase 2
to get into a deeper state of rest in
which habit formation and neuroplasticity can occur
Neuroplasticity and rewiring of neural circuits happen in deep sleep
which is the basis of habit formation
So, if you don’t do the things in this phase you won’t build those habits from phases 1 & 2
Practical things here
Do relaxing things and sleep soundly
important tips about this plan as a whole:
if you start to have habits in phases 1 and 2 that you start to engage with pretty effortlessly
you can move them to different times and phases of the day which will make the habit context independent
in doing so,
habit moved to a certain component of neurocircuitry
that allows us to do what seems reflexive
What moves are the signals, the sequence of electrical firing
Once the information moved to a different area of the brain it achieved context independence
Tool 4 dopamine spotlighting and task bracketing
using dopamine to help motivate you to do the habit
Neuroscience/ why it works
This has to do with reward prediction errors which entail
If you anticipate that something will happen dopamine
will start releasing and if that thing happens
the dopamine releases would be greater
And if you anticipate that something will happen and it doesn’t happen dopamine will drop below the baseline
And if something positive and unexpected happens
you’ll get dopamine greater than when you have anticipated
When anticipating a reward it starts to arrive earlier as dopamine release experience as a feeling of positive anticipation
And when the thing happens dopamine gets released too
but most of it comes in with the anticipation
the series of thoughts you think as you do the habit.
it will start to generate dopamine release within your body and brain
eg. thoughts you might have: this is great,i actually i managed to do this,
i am succeeding in executing the behaviors i need to perform this habit,
i am overriding limbic friction’
The release of dopamine changes your state because of the neuro circuit changes
ie. our levels of energy, and sensory things that we pay attention to
Benefits
It makes it easier to form habits because it
give us energy by converting dopamine into epinephrin which changes your state
that will make it easier to override limbic friction
How do you do it
Start positively anticipating the execution of the habit itself,
the period headed into the habit and afterward by feeling a particular set of benefits
It’s very important to not lie to yourself about the execution of the habit
ie. anticipate the hardship and the effort that it will require
here is how it looks step by step
1-pick a habit you want to form
2-write down concretely the sequence of steps
involved in the execution of the habit
3-write down what is the sequence of events
that need to precede that habit immediately 10-15 min before
4-write down the immediate sequence of
events, thoughts, or feelings that will occur after the habit
ie. anticipate what you will feel and think after completing the habit
positively associate the entire events that lead to the habit,
In doing so you engage the reward prediction error through
a reward-like feeling of completing something
which will lead to the release of dopamine
which will lead you to be motivated

21-day habit installation and testing system
It involves doing 6 habits for the next 21 days and then testing them out for the next 21 days
steps:
1- write 6 things you’d like to do every day for 21 days
2-what phase of the day do those things fall into?
Depends on what they are and how they relate to each phase
3-Expectation to complete 4-5 things of those each day
You can chunk these habits into 2 days ie do these habits in a span of 2 days then reset the habits
instead of having 24 hours to do these habits you have 48 hours then reset
4-After the 21 days of learning you test yourself for the next 21 days, how?
You stop deliberately engaging in those 4-5 habits and see how many are automatically
incorporated into your schedule, you are naturally doing
why do you test yourself?
1-To Assess how deeply you rewired your nervous system
to be able to perform these habits of the previous 21 days
2-To assess whether or not you can make room for new habits / more habits
You might find that you did 2 consistently and 1 sporadically
and 3 that you didn’t do
in those 21 testing days, you see whether or not
you can continue to perform those habits
if you can do them effortlessly and reflexive
Then and only then can you add more habits in
If the 21 testing days didn’t end up making them reflexive
you repeat the 21 days of testing again and again
And only after they become reflexive you can start learning new habits
In a year timeline it can look like you start the year learning those habits
and for the next couple of months or more
you repeat them until they become reflexive then you start new habits
Features of the plan
- Built-in failure by not doing all 6 habits
- lack of compensation and punishment for missed days
- Hait slip by not doing all 6 habits
- A high-intensity program that involves testing yourself
That makes the system adaptable to the real world
Collapse the phases system and All the tools you learned in this program
in doing so, there’s a high probability that the habits will have context dependence
and take progressively less and less limbic friction to perform them
comment how did you find this post?
this post is part of start the Year Strong series
All of these posts have an aim to help you prepare for the new year and start the year strong
here is the list of all the articles at start the year Strong series
- How To Get Ready For The New Year
- How To Reflect On The Past Year
- How To Set Goals That Actually Work
- How To Make A Plan To Reach Your Goals
- How To Set And Build New Habits
- 3 Mindsets You Need To Succeed At Every Goal
- Can’t Get Myself Motivated? 3 Powerful Ways To Get Motivated
- How To Beat Procrastination Tips: 5 Strategies Based On Science
to your success
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