Designing tools,  Self Growth

Dream Life Series By Lavendaire Review

How To Create And Build Your Dream Life

The dream life series as the name implies about giving us the tools and wisdom to go and build our own dream life whatever that might be for each one of us. It created by a YouTuber, Aileen. she is amazing, inspiring and captivating I really like her work and everything she offers if you don’t know her she has a channel called lavendaire which is amazing, inspiring and good help in this journey( i am a huge fan of her)

It focused on people who are yet to know their life basically from knowing yourself, knowing your purpose, mission, vision and what you want from life or just remind you if you already know and you can just take the lessons she offers to help you on your journey

 

The series is 12 videos (technically 10 the other two are just people who did the series talks about it) the 1st video is an introduction to the series and all that is coming

From the 2ed video start the work this one talks about mindset shifts and habits to help you in the journey

3ed video about getting to know yourself

4th video about getting to know what you want and write it down

5th video about fears and what holding you back with exercise to help you set yourself free from fear

6th video about talking action and lessons about consistency

7th video about meditation and the law of attraction

8th video about the obstacles you are going to face in this journey

9th video self-care and its importance in this journey

10th video about questions people who watched and did the series in the time of its release

11th the review from people who did it

12th update on Aileen’s dream

 

She covers everything you need on how to create and build your dream life, start living your dream life but of course, you need to do the work. Nothing will happen until you do.

 

It came in the perfect time since I was already thinking of sitting down and clarify the things I want from life. When I saw Aileen post the first video I knew that a sign to do it no matter what. I was thinking of just write what I want but I had resistant to do it generally this happened many times when I get to planning and writing my goals, dreams but I was determined this year to do it because I know without clarity I don’t know where I want to go and I won’t have the motivation to move . Now I know some things I want from life, my mission and a greater sense of the bigger things I want to accomplish. what I found I need to explore more and work hard on my personal growth I need to get deeper and listen. what I found and now I admit is that I am a multi-passionate person and that’s one of the reasons I was crippled before. I had so many things that interest me and so many that grab me so I couldn’t choose. now I decide to take what I am drawn to most and let the other in the side just for now

The series helped me to be clear on what I want from life for the next 3 to 5 years also, some bigger goals that don’t fit the time frame. helped me to get myself more and think hard about it and keep learning about myself.

The word that word that sums my dream life is freedom. freedom to live where I want, be whoever I want, take care of myself, build and achieve what I feel drawn to not implemented in me from outside, listen to the voice inside of me that I kept shutting because the outside world told me otherwise the voice that I feel I lost because of the noise 

 

How To Create And Build Your Dream Life

My favorite exercise was fear setting because it helped me confront my fears. Even after finishing the exercise and the series whenever I feel resistant or hesitant I journal about it and I find behind that is fear then confront it as I did in the exercise. What I did notice is that some fears keep popping even after I did the exercise in different forms. many started surfacing after I started to toward the direction of my goals. a recent one is that I keep pushing starting a business(side hustle) because of the fear from failing and it’s not going to work that fear was under thoughts like I need to learn more, I don’t know if this the right idea, how can I get the word out(even though I am learning more and more about marketing as if now)other fear that I thought I didn’t have but after journaling I am sure there’s a fear of change and success too which surprised me because I didn’t expect them because come on why would I fear success or change when I want both.

 

 lessons I learned

I learned to be consistent, determined. Learned to keep going and keep taking action and not sit on my dreams

Lessons that stuck is to focus on what I want,thoughts are powerful it determine how you feel ,act.also, knowing that life not going be a smooth ride all the way it will be moments where things will not seem to make sense or you get confused or overwhelmed again and just keep going and figure things out as they come. that I will be a success as long I try and have faith and many more but these are the ones that really resonated with me now.

if you are not sold yet ;p and need more convincing here are

Reasons To Watch And Not To Watch The Series

watch it if..

1- you really want a step by step guide to creating your dream life

2- you felt or feeling confused, lost, uncertain about your life right now

3- you’re a fan of Aileen’s work

4- you need a reminder and some wisdom in your journey(guys each video won’t take more than 10 minutes max it an investment in yourself, either way, you watch youtube or scroll online you can use this time to learn something and get inspired)

don’t watch it if..

1- you don’t want to change your life and happy where you are(but I still argue to watch it because at least you’re going to learn some lessons that will help you in your life)

2- already know what you want from life

3- living your dream life

 

be happy, peaceful and love more

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