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Step into confidence

How to take on life, achieve your dreams, stand against the voices that are inside and outside that try to keep you where you are where you don’t want to be anymore how to step into the next you.

the You who has these big dreams and goals the you that are confident, believer, stronger, courageous.

To step into the new you, the next version of you is to step into confidence into believing everything is possible

if you are ready to take the leap of faith and step into the next best version of you here are some ways I am using and used to do that. there are practical not just some motivational words

How I am stepping into confidence

I care so much of what I consume that’s why I consume contents that serve to increase my positivity, help me change my mind and help me be around great people that normally I won’t see because what you feed yourself matter if you feed yourself shitty stuff, useless stuff all the times they will be ingrained in your brain make you feel useless, stressed, sad and unable to move from where you are to where you want to be. I saw a shift in my thinking when I changed what I consume of contents.

I was stuck, overwhelmed, scared, sad and felt life is passing me by and I wasn’t able to do anything even though I had a big dream but at the same time, I wasn’t able to allow myself to dream or try to from that i started to forget what I want and what my dream is.

I was in a dark place I didn’t know what to do. I thought what I know isn’t enough which wasn’t helpful for me to get from that dark place.

the people around me they didn’t help they fed my sadness with more sadness, fears with more fears life was so dark and gloomy and the way out wasn’t anywhere near.

The sting and the pain of feeling paralyzed when you can move physically and mind imprisonment was so real that I couldn’t take it anymore, and everything and everyone around me wanted me to go with the flow, which I hated so deeply.

What I did was distract myself from those thoughts of helplessness by watching tv and eating, because if I stayed with my thoughts, I would cry so much.

When I saw people living their dream life and I look at mine and how hopeless I was I got angry at them, at me at my family. my mind was sick with negative thoughts, blame, complaint, hate but always there was a dime voice that told me to never give up for whatever reason and prayer helped me I asked for guidance many times when no way was in sight and it answered. I started to see doors open to help me change how I think, which is crucial to get out of where I am to where I want to be.

To be honest, when I try to recall what exactly happened, it comes foggy. I started watching YouTube videos about belief and personal growth At first, it was passive and brought confusion because

I know now that it challenged my beliefs and what the cycle of people around me is telling me about life and what to do in it but I kept at it then started applying what it resonatedt with me and adapt it into my life

while I was still in college, I had enough with being shy talking to people nad being social setting so i figured it’s time to work on my confidence and i stumbled upon the book 7 secrets of confidence. It was a great help in giving me practical steps to follow, these steps which I used for many other things in my life to change how I think

Self-awareness and trying to be more of self awared helped me to notice my patterns of thinking and what I do that didn’t serve me if you wondering how and what I did, honestly what I did is I only have been aware of this thought and exposed myself to videos that talks about it then I started to notice also I think the reflection I do at end of each month and year helped too. Bonus tip I heard about still yet to do which is journaling

Permission I gave myself the permission to dream and follow my heart again. I started to be myself and live to what I believe and value. How I knew my values through noticing what things matter to me most and asking questions that get deeper.

some of these questions are “if the thing that I am fearing wasn’t there, what will I do what will I have, why I want it, what is my purpose..etc.

Feel the pain of what I did from wasting my time. dwelling on what’s wrong, letting others dictate my thinking and paralyze me from taking action cry and get frustrated at myself, then moving from it. Let it go.

Picture who I want to be and start to embody that by changing how I stand and sit, what I wear, everything that going to give the feel and confidence in the new person I want to be.

This new person that is confident, courageous, strong, and a believer.

Focus on what I want I started to focus more on what I want and deliberately choose to dismiss what I don’t because, as Oprah Winfrey said:” you become what you believe”.

This activates the reticular activating system in your brain, which will help you notice what you want that you didn’t notice before. let you see opportunities, doors, people, and much more that are going to help you achieve what you are focusing on, your dreams and goals.